When Life Feels Under Construction: By Diran Avagyan

As many of us have experienced at some point in our lives, home or office renovation can be jarring. The mess, the chaos, unexpected changes of plans, missed deadlines, noise, dust, dirt, packing boxes, misplaced or lost items – all contribute to our disorientation and discomfort. Our daily routines, meal and sleep schedules become disrupted, and even our relationships may suffer. Yet, what a joy it is when the project finally comes to completion, when the mess is transformed into a beautiful and comfortable space filled with a sense of newness that words can hardly describe. Not only do we regain our normalcy, but we also feel motivated, rejuvenated, and even happier.

If you have recently visited our Diocesan Headquarters in Burbank, you would know what I am talking about. Our administrative offices have practically been demolished to the ground. We work from a conference room adjacent to the construction site, where constant noise disrupts our work, while dust and dirt create inconvenience and make it difficult to stay focused. Yet, when we think about the near completion of the project and the state-of-the-art offices, conference rooms, a new innovation and media center, and all the prospects and possibilities they will create for us on the cusp of the 100th Anniversary of the Western Diocese, the discomfort turns into anticipation, and disorientation into a dream soon to become reality.

This experience teaches us not only patience, but also the confidence that chaos has the potential to be transformed into order. If you are experiencing difficulties in your life and everything seems to be a big mess, remember: “Blessed are those who endure temptation; for when they have been approved, they will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him” (James 1:12). Remember that the chaos in your life is not a life sentence, but an opportunity to rise above it one step at a time. Just like beginners in rock climbing, we may stumble, fall, and hit rock bottom. Our knees and elbows may bleed, but with determination, patience, and purpose, we can endure life’s challenges and emerge from ruins to restoration, from chaos to normalcy, from noise to quietness, from disruption to stillness, and from staleness to renewal.

May we find the strength to endure the messiness of life and receive the promised gift of God.